by slothead » Sat Mar 05, 2016 6:00 pm
I have 2 grandsons who moved right next door. When they were little they practically lived over here, doing stuff with me in the yard, and racing slot cars. The younger one loved it and couldn't get enough of it so he was better at it, and when his older brother couldn't beat him he lost interest and got involved with other things. Then they got into video games and spent most of their time doing that before getting into skateboards. Now the older one is in college and the younger one is thinking about where he's going to go in another year and a half.
All of the above is normal and to be expected. But where I went wrong was not teaching them basic 'do it yourself' skills. If something broke I'd fix it. If an upgrade on the track or cars was needed I'd do it and they'd be the helpers. Even though things might have needed to be done more than once, or some materials and tools might have been sacrificed, I should have let them do it and me be the guide and helper. Not so they'd be life-long slot car racers, but so they'd have the skills that come from designing, building, and maintaining things. As is, their dad is a city guy, and even though they grew up in the country I doubt they'll ever own their own tools, change the oil in their cars, build a table, solder wires, or any of the myriad of things I do that I learned from my dad and from a lifetime of racing slot cars.
Even if we don't pass on the passion for the hobby, we should pass on the skills we got from it.
Slothead