Well I decided to pay my taxes out of pocket.
This has been a complete disaster, with hours of wasted time. I left this car out in the baking sun for DAYS. It was dry, but then I hit it with gloss spray clear and disaster again!

The only possibility that just came to me is the white paint. It is the same brand, but I think it might be a junk can or something. It simply does not stick. After putting on the clear you could just take your finger and wipe off the paint all the way down to the blue plastic. The clear simply softened it completely.
The red also lifted the white when I tried to paint over this.

I am pretty frustrated by this repeated failures and then with the exact same process things look great. The only variable seems to be the white color paint.
I am going to try to switch to Krylon...................